Myths and Facts of Domestic Violence

MYTH #1: Battering only affects a small percentage of the population.
FACT: One out of five women will be physically assaulted by her partner.

MYTH #2: Victims stay because they like being abused.
FACT: Most do not like abuse; they often stay due to complex reasons, including love for the non-abusive side of their partner and fear of the dangers associated with leaving.

MYTH #3: Only poor, minority women are severely abused.
FACT: Domestic violence affects individuals of all genders, ages, and socio-economic backgrounds.

MYTH #4: Victims are uneducated and lack job skills.
FACT: Domestic violence can affect anyone from economically dependent individuals to highly skilled professionals.

MYTH #5: Perpetrators are unsuccessful and lack resources.
FACT: Abusers come from all walks of life and can be found in various professions.

MYTH #6: Alcohol and drugs cause abuse.
FACT: Abusers can be violent whether sober or intoxicated; substance use is often used as an excuse.

MYTH #7: The abuser is out of control.
FACT: Abusers exercise control over their actions and choose when and how to commit violence.

MYTH #8: Victims provoke their partner’s violence.
FACT: The abuser is responsible for their violent behavior; feelings do not justify actions.

MYTH #9: Couples counseling is effective for abusive relationships.
FACT: Abuse is a control issue, and counseling can be unsafe; individual therapy is recommended instead.

MYTH #10: Therapy will stop the violence.
FACT: The safest option for victims is separation from the abuser, as therapy alone may not ensure safety.